Japanese Mindset 3meaning of 手放す — tebanasu-

“Letting go “ means intentionally releasing things, emotions, or attachments you’ve been holding onto. you are allowing yourself to gain freedom. It’s a way to prepare for welcoming new opportunities and growth.

Those who can’t let go will stay the same forever.

As people go through life, they accumulate many things work, money , status, power , vanity, pride, girlfriends, and FWB

But at certain points in life, you have to let go of what you’ve gained.However, there are those who, despite knowing it’s no longer necessary, are too scared to lose it and continue holding on tightly.

If you don’t consiously let go of something, you’ll end up carrying too many things and before you know it, your life will be overloaded and you’ll inevitably become a person with no room to breathe

Without the courage to let go , you can’t change

when you move to the next phase, you have to let go of most of what you’ve been holding onto. Only after losing something, will something new come into your life. Nothing can come to a place that’s already full

If the cup is full, no more can fit in, and if your hands are holding two things, you can’t hold a third.

To gain something, you must inevitably let go of something else

By letting go, you create “space” and that “space” invites something new to fill it. You lose, and then you discover something. Because it’s empty, It can be filled.

First, you must let go. You must release

There are way too many people who have everything backward.

For example

・A woman working in nightlife says she’ll quit once she finds a husband candidate.

・Someone wants to quit the job but won’t because they haven’t figured out what to do next.

・A person wants to break up with their boy or girlfriend but will only do it if they find someone better

It’s all backward. You’ll find it after you quit. That’s how it works.

A “kyabajō” short for “cabaret girl” is a hostess at a Japanese cabaret club often called a “kyabakura” (a combination of “cabaret” and “club”). who entertains customers by talking, pouring drinks, and creating a fun atmosphere. They are known for their glamorous appearance and professional hospitality, focused solely on the club setting.

someone like you , who’s afraid of losing, will never change. You’ll stay the same forever. You say you want to change, but you’re scared of losing something, Staying in the same place feels safe, right

Enough already

Just let it go!

If what you’re holding onto isn’t needed by the person you are now. It’s jsut garbage!

Put the garbage in the trash!

Life is catch-and-release

When you try to bring too much into your life at once, It becomes heavy. You need to clearly assess, understand and decide what to hold onto and what to let go of.

what to keep and what to release.

the new things that come into your life are more valuable than what you’ve lost.

“If you let go of what’s taken for granted, you gain a heart full of gratitude”

“If you let go of anxiety, you gain hope”

“Let go of toxic relationships, and you create room for new connections”

“Let go of assumption, and you open up choices”

“Let go of forcing things, and you’ll find enjoyment”

“Let go of your pride, and you’ll discover your true self”

“Let go of comparisons to others and you’ll live your own life”

See you again!!!

「手放す」意味

「手放す」とは物や感情、こだわりなど、今まで握り締めていたのもを意識的に手放し、自由になること。それは新しいチャンスや成長を受け入れるための準備

手放せない奴は一生そのまま

人が生きていたら、いろんなものが手に入る。仕事、趣味、カネ、地位、権力、見栄、プライド、友達、彼女、セフレ。

でも人生の節目では時にせっかく手に入れたものを手放さないといけない

けど、もう今の自分では不必要であるのも関わらず、失う事にびびって、ずっと握りしめてる人がいる

意識して何かを手放さないと、色んなものを抱え込んで、いつの間にお前の人生はいっぱいいっぱい

もれなく余裕のない人間の完成。

失う勇気がないから変われない

次のフェーズ進む時は、今まで守ってきたものの大半を失ってから。

何かを失って、初めて次の新しい何かがやってくる。

満たされたところには何もやってこない

コップが満杯ならそれ以上はいらないし、

両手に二つ物を握りしめてたら三個目はもてない。

何かを得るた目には必ず何かを手放さければいけない

手放す事により 「空き」ができ

その「空き」に新しい何かが埋めるようにやってくる。

失うから、何かを見つけ。空いているから、埋まる。

まずは捨てること、手放すことが先

なんか順番が逆なやつが多すぎる

夜職の女が旦那候補見つかったら夜辞めるとか

仕事は辞めたいけど、次に何するか見つかってないから辞めないとか

彼氏彼女と別れたいけど、もっと良い人が見つかったらこの人と別れるとか

もう全部逆。辞めてから見つかる。そんなもん。

お前みたいな失う事にビビってる奴は一生変わらん。一生そのまま。

変わりたいくせに、失うのが怖い。現状維持は安心できるもんな

もうな

もうええから

さっさと捨てろ！

お前が持ってるもん今の自分にとって必要ないならただのゴミやから！

ゴミはゴミ箱に！

人生はキャッチアンドリリース

一度に多くを持ち込もうとすると人生は重くなる

何を掴み続け、何を手放すをしっかり見極め、知り、そして決めろ。

何を残し、何を手放すか。

新しくやってきたものは失ったもの以上に価値がある

「当たり前は手放せば感謝の心が手に入る」

「不安を手放せば希望が手にはいる」

「嫌な人間関係を手放すと新しい出会い」

「思い込みを手放すと選択肢」

「無理を手放すと楽しさが」

「プライドを手放すと自分らしさ」

「他人との比較を手放すと自分の人生が」

ほなまた！