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“Go All or Nothing! Balance Can Only Be Found Through Extremes”

Vegeta is training to his absolute limit

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極端- kyokutan- 1 Extreme 2 All or nothing(0 or 100 ) 3 Black or white

1 Being significantly different from the normal or average drastically leaning towards one side.

2 The farthest point or edge of something.

Finding the right balance is the best

I’ll say this from the start: extreme thinking is not good. In this world, Just right is the best. It’s best. Nothing should be overdone, and nothing should be underdone either. Humans are not too strong to live with 0 or 100, Black and white.

A man relaxing in a men’s bath with a depiction of Mt. Fuji

Sure, living extremely may show results in the short term, but in the long run, it can lead to a lack of flexibility and increase stress. For example, I don’t like boobs that are too small, but I also don’t like them too big (personally) By the way, I’m not mocking small people or making fun of people with large ones, It’s just my personal preference. hahaha

she’s Bakutiti(爆乳- super brabaster) women

Anyway, In everything, there’s something called ‘moderation that works for each person

The best is most difficult

But, this “just right” is super hard.

Try getting on balance ball, it’s extremely difficult to keep getting on it for 3, or 4 hours. Isn’t it?

It’s the same thing. Keeping to balance and finding your moderation is incredibly difficult. And yet aren’t there a lot of people who try to aim for the hardest middle ground, the ‘50’ right from the start?

Hey….

The best is the most difficult. You know?

There’s no way you can achieve the best right from the start.

Shout up and all in, 0 or 100

I want to tell those fools: just go all the way, at least one. If you decide to do something, push yourself to the limit. Give it everything you’ve got. If you decide not to do it, then don’t do it at all even if someone grabs you by the collar, stand your ground. got to the extremes! It’s 0 or 100

Finding your true limits or real balance isn’t something that comes easily.

Let me ask you something.

Can someone who has never tried both “Karakuti” curry and “Amakuti” curry understand what “ Tyukuti” curry tastes like?

this is most dlicious boil-in-the-bag curry(レトルト)

Japanese Retort Curry: A convenient, ready-to-eat curry in a sealed pouch. Simply heat and serve over rice. It comes in various flavors and spice levels to suit different tastes.

  • Mild (甘口): A sweet and gentle flavor with little to no spiciness.
  • Medium (中口): A balanced flavor with moderate spiciness.
  • Hot (辛口): A bold and spicy flavor with a strong kick.

Can someone who has never experienced a life of extreme saving and reckless spending know the right way to manage money?

Japanese spendthrift(浪費家) and Japanese cost cut Samurai 侍

Can someone who has never gone through a phase of only studying with no fun or playing every day without studying figure out the proper balance between studying and having fun?

me when I was university student and went night club everyday, me now stduiyng English hard

Ultimately, you won’t understand what’s “just right “ unless you expose yourself to the world of extremes. You need to experience both ends of the spectrum

you seriously lack the courage to experience the extremes.

There are things you can only see when you dive into the world of extremes. If you try to live at 100%, you’ll burn out both mentally and physically. On the other hand, living at 0% will make you lose motivation and lead to a sense of powerlessness.

People who hang out with others too much and don’t make time for themselves never reflect on their past or learn from it. On the other hand, if you cut off all your relationships and spend 24 hours alone, you’d feel like you want to die from loneliness.

Extreme experiences are tough and hard

An illustration of an exhausted super duper busy OL (office lady)

“OL” is a Japanese term that stands for “office lady,” referring to a female office worker, usually in clerical or administrative roles.

But through such experiences, you start to see what “ just right” means for you for the first time.

So

go ahead, just going all in.

Life starts from here, Let’s do what we can do and as far as we can.

日本語ver

極端

極端 0か100 白か黒か

 普通程度から大きく外れていること。一方にはなはだしくかたよっていること。また、そのさま  もののいちばんはし。

ちょうどいいが一番いい

最初に言っておくけど、極端な考え方は良くない。

世の中「ちょうどいい」が一番いい

ベストだ。

何ごともやりすぎは良くないし、やらなさすぎも良くない。

0か100、白か黒状態で一生を生きていけるほど、人間は強くない

確かに極端に生きたら、短かい期間は力を発揮するけど、長い目で見たら柔軟性かけるし、ストレスも増える

A man relaxing in a men’s bath with a depiction of Mt. Fuji

おっぱいも小さすぎてもやだけど、デカすぎても嫌なんよね(個人的に)

ちなみに小さい人を馬鹿にしてるわけではないし、デカすぎる人をバカしにしてるわけではない、ただ俺の好みなんだ。

まぁ何事にもその人にとっての「適度」ってもんがある

一番いいは一番難しい

でも、その「ちょうどいい」を見つけるのはホンマに難しい。

バランスボールに乗ってみろよ、3時間、4時間乗り続けるのは至難の業やろ?

それと同じで、バランスをとり続ける、自分にとっての「適度」を見つけるのはめちゃくちゃ難しい

それやのに、いきなり一番難しい中間の「50」狙ってるやつ多くない?

一番良いは一番難しい

に決まってる

そんないきなりベスト取れるわけないやん。

黙って0か100

俺は言いたい、そんなアホに。

一度、行ききれ。

やるって決めたら限界までやれ、限界まで頑張れ。極端に行ききれ!

0か100。

辛口のカレーと甘口のカレーを食べた事ないやつが、中口を分かるのか?

this is most dlicious boil-in-the-bag curry(レトルト)

全然お金を使わない生活と、散財しまくる生活を経験したことがないやつが、ちょうど良いお金の使い方なんて分かるのか?

Japanese spendthrift(浪費家) and Japanese cost cut Samurai 侍

全然遊ばないで勉強だけしたやつと、毎日遊びまくって勉強しなかったやつ、両方を知らないやつが、勉強と遊びの適度な両立なんて分かるのか?

きった経験をした奴にしか「ちょうどいい」分からない

お前、極端を経験する勇気たりてなさすぎ

極端の世界に飛び込んで、初めて見えるものがある。

100%で生きようとしたら、精神的にも身体的にも疲弊する、逆に0%の状態はやる気がなくなるし、無力感にもつながる

人と群れすぎて一人の時間を作らない人間は、過去の振り返ることも反省もすることもない。反対に、人間関係全部切ってしまって24時間一人になったら孤独で死にたくなる。

極端な体験ははしんどいし、辛い。

でも、そんな経験を通して

初めて自分にとっての「ちょうどいい」が見えてくる

だから、いちゃいな、ヤバいとこまで。

人生いつもこっから、やれる事やって、いけるとこまでいこや。

SEITA
Just Japanse
Japanese 27 years old man
bartender in the nightclub
Study Abroad in Los Angeles, USA 1year

During my one-year study abroad, I advanced from the lowest class (Elementary) to the second-highest class (Pre-Advanced) in a language school.

- 30-day Yoga Training in India
- Traveled to 12 Countries and 19 Cities 🇺🇸 🇵🇭 🇭🇰 🇲🇴 🇮🇳🇬🇧 🇪🇸 🇮🇹 🇫🇷 🇩🇪 🇨🇭 🇳🇱
- Traveled Around Japan
- JAPANESE Minimalist
- Fitness Enthusiast

I train five days a week and have received personal training from an IFBB pro at the "Gold's Gym Venice" headquarters, pushing myself to grow physically.

- Other Qualifications and Experiences**
-Abacus Level 2
- TOEIC Score: 790  English proficiency in professional settings,
- Played Tennis from 3rd Grade to High School
- I played Lacrosse for 3 years at University



Attended Artist Live Performances

- AKB48 - FUKUOKA YAHUOKU Dome 2012.07.20.21 the most famous and biggest Japanese Idol group
- NMB48 - Osaka-jo Hall Japanese Idol
- EXILE Japanese artist
- Toshinobu Kubota - Nakano Island Festival Hall Unknown Japanese artist
- BIGBANG - BIGBANG JAPAN DOME TOUR 2017 - LAST DANCE 2017.12.24 Korean artist
- Sigala - Club Piccadilly Day Party 2018.06.17
- Marshmello- Encore Beach Club at Wynn Las Vegas 2018.09.13
- Kygo - Kids in Love Tour 2018.10.27 SAITAMA super arena
- Taylor Swift- Reputation Stadium Tour Tokyo Dome 2018.11.20
- Steve Aoki - OMNIA Las Vegas Nightclub 2021.11.27
- Deorro - Maqueen New York Nightclub 2022.01.02
- Ultra Music Festival - Ultra Music Festival 2022.03.25,26,27
- Coachella- Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival 2022.04.22,23,24
- Chance The Rapper- Aria Beach Club Las Vegas 2022.05.28
- Lil Jon - Hakkasan Nightclub Las Vegas 2022.05.28
- DJ Snake - AYU Day Club Las Vegas 2022.05.29
- Steve Aoki - OMNIA Nightclub Las Vegas 2022.05.30
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Nightclubs Visited

- Japan 🇯🇵
- Osaka: OWL, PICCADILLY PREMIUM, Amonna, BAMBI, THE Pink, THE 超 Pink, Club Bunny, Crazy Land by CHEVAL, The V
- Kyoto: KITSUNE, WORLD
- Tokyo: Warp Shinjuku, Atom Shibuya, CÉ LA VI, BAIA
- Fukuoka: Ibiza
- Hokkaido: UTAGE
- Okinawa: Club Epica


- USA 🇺🇸
- Los Angeles: 1212 Santa Monica, Exchange LA, The Reserve, Nightingale Plaza, AVALON Hollywood
- San Diego: American Junkie
- Las Vegas: JEWEL, ELIA BEACH CLUB, Hakkasan Nightclub, OMNIA Nightclub, ZOUK Nightclub
- New York: MARQLE, LEBAIN
- Miami: CLUBSPACE, E11EVEN, TREEHOUSE, LIV Miami Beach


- Europe 🇪🇸 🇫🇷 🇮🇹
- Spain: TEATTO CAPITAL (Madrid), OPIUM (Barcelona)
- France: L’arc Paris
- Italy: Hollywood Milano, The Club Milano

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